This came out of a discussion in the comments of this post:
http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3760013
I'm getting more and more frustrated with the amount of downvoting on HN recently. Otherwise rational arguments that happen to contain unpopular opinions are the canonical example, but sometimes the reasons are just puzzling.
So I thought I'd make this post, so we could discuss it as a community - is it OK, or is it not?
In my opinion, in addition to being rude, it's ineffective; the person who got downvoted is never going to change their opinion based on what you say, and it's important to keep in mind that they're not always wrong; many times I've replied with a disagreement, and either learned something or changed my mind completely.
Obvious trolling or childish arguments are a different kettle of fish; we're actively trying to push those people off of HN, which is what we're doing by hitting the downvote arrow.
What does everyone else think? I'm happy to be proved wrong about this, but I think it's important to have the discussion, and I'm not sure we have recently.
As pointed out by avree, pg five years ago said it is OK, because people upvote based on agreement:
http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=117171